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Couples & relational therapy
Notice the patterns that keep taking over, interrupt them in real time, and practice a more honest way of relating.
Couples, intimacy & individual therapy
Change how you
show up. Together.
Thoughtful, direct therapy for changing the patterns between you—so closeness, communication, and partnership can feel different in everyday life.
Boulder, ColoradoTelehealth available throughout Colorado
Alexandra Josfan
MFTC, LPCC
When insight is not enough
You can understand the pattern and still keep repeating it.
Maybe the same conflict keeps returning. Closeness feels harder to reach. You want a genuine partner, but increasingly feel alone inside the relationship.
Therapy can help you catch what happens between you, make room for a different choice, and practice new ways of relating where they matter—at home, in motion, over time.
Services
Work on what happens between you.
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Intimacy & sex therapy
Thoughtful, direct work with closeness, desire, sexuality, trust, and the conversations that can be hardest to have.
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Individual therapy
Understand the relationships, protective patterns, and embodied experiences shaping how you show up in your life.
Approach
Insight, practiced into change.
Understanding matters. The work also asks what you will notice, interrupt, and choose differently in everyday life.
Alexandra draws from complementary approaches to work with emotion, the body, personal history, and the larger systems shaping your relationships. Together, you can slow down what is happening and practice relating with greater intention.
- Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT)
- Internal Family Systems (IFS)
- Somatic approaches
- Narrative Therapy
- Relational Life Therapy
- Systemic lens
About Alexandra
Warmth for the work. Candor for the pattern.
Alexandra Josfan, MFTC, LPCC, works with adults and couples from a relational and systemic perspective. Her work attends to both the patterns between people and the inner experiences each person brings into the room.
The aim is not perfection or closeness at any cost. It is learning what gets in the way, staying connected to yourself, and choosing how you want to move toward others.
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Ready to work differently?
Send a consultation request through SimplePractice. Alexandra can follow up about fit and next steps.
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